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ToggleUnplanned pregnancy also know as unintended pregnancies is a prevalent occurrence worldwide, and can have significant implications on women’s health in general. Latest research estimates that approximately 50% of all pregnancies in South Africa are unplanned, highlighting a significant public health concern that impacts many individuals across the nation.
So How do Unplanned Pregnancies Occur?
1 **Contraception failure** Various methods, such as birth control pills and injections, have a success rate of about 80 to 90 % in preventing unintended pregnancies when used correctly and consistently.
- However, there are cases where these methods can fail, for instance, forgetting to take a pill at the same time daily can greatly reduce its effectiveness.
2. **Lack of knowledge about reproductive health ** Lack of Inadequate knowledge of various contraception methods and how to use them eg:- "wrongly using condoms" may lead to an unplanned pregnancy.
- False beliefs and misconceptions about sexual and reproductive health education, contraception, and fertility can lead to ineffective use of protection or avoidance of contraception altogether.
3. **Domestic violence ** This too can lead to unintended pregnancies through various means. One way is through reproductive coercion, where an abuser may manipulate or sabotage birth control methods to control their partner's reproductive choices.
- Additionally, the lack of power and control in an abusive relationship may prevent survivors from negotiating safe sex practices or accessing contraception. The emotional and physical trauma of domestic violence can also lead to risky behaviors that increase the likelihood of unintended pregnancies.
What Should i do When in Doubt?
Should you still doubt how you feeling, its advisable to either use a home pregnancy test to determine whether you are pregnant, or get a blood test done especially if there are concerns regarding the accuracy of the results obtained from over-the-counter testing methods.
So are you pregnant?
The actual answer would be provided by using a home pregnancy test that checks for hCG, a hormone made during pregnancy or get an ultrasound scan. But even before that there could be early pregnancy symptoms signs that indicate that you’re pregnant. Eg:-
- Fatigue
- Missed period
- Constipation
- Light spotting
- Nausea and vomiting
- Tender / swollen breasts
- Increased urination
But also bear in mind that not all of those signs and pregnancy symptoms are associated to being pregnant. In fact, some of these indicators can also signal that you might be coming down with an illness or that your menstrual period is approaching.
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This is How You Can Fearlessly Handle Unintended Pregnancy!
When faced with a pregnancy that was unplanned, you need to know that you’re not alone. The staff at Oasis women’s clinics can assist you navigate this situation with a clear mind or follow the strategies below to help you maintain your composure in uncertainty, stress, and anxiety.
1- Acknowledge the shock:- It’s perfectly normal to experience shock in response to unexpected events or sudden, traumatic changes that can significantly alter the course of your life. Therefore you can or you should give yourself time to process the whole situation before making any random decisions.
2- Visualize your options:- As you process your emotions, it is important to be gentle with yourself and acknowledge that everyone copes differently; there is no right or wrong way to feel in the face of life-altering news.
You may try visualizing each option not forgetting to take into account the consequences of unexpected pregnancy and how it will affect you in the long run.
3- Seek help / Support:- Seeking support from friends and family would also be beneficial at this time. You may also consider confidentially consulting via a Telemedicine platform and speak to professional counselors who can advise you how to navigate through your thoughts and feelings.
So What Are My Options?
It is essential to recognize that not all unintended pregnancies are viewed as unwanted. In fact, many individuals may still embrace the situation with joy and hope for the future. However you have 3 other options that you can consider carefully. ….
1- Parenting
If you decide to continue with the pregnancy and become a parent, it is essential to prioritize pregnancy care which encompasses a variety of aspects, including regular medical check-ups, proper nutrition, prenatal vitamins, and emotional support, both critical aspects of you and the baby.
2- Foster care
If you find yourself uncertain about the prospect of adoption, yet simultaneously question your ability to adequately care for a baby, exploring options such as foster care or kinship placements might serve as a viable temporary solution.
3- Adoption
If you find yourself feeling overwhelmed and believe that you need additional time to adequately prepare for the multitude of responsibilities and challenges that come with becoming a full-time parent, it is important to know that there are viable alternatives like adoption.
4- Abortion
If parenting and adoption are not paths you wish to pursue, then considering other complex options like legally terminating the pregnancy would be the last option for those facing unforeseen pregnancies.
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Where to Seek Guidance
When faced with an unplanned pregnancy, there are several resources available to provide guidance and support. You can consider reaching out to organizations such as Carlton Women’s Clinic in Johannesburg, local health departments, or pregnancy resource centers.
Those organizations offer counseling services and information about options for unplanned pregnancies and can also provide referrals to medical professionals or social services.
Conclusion
No matter what decision you make, remember that it’s your journey and your choice. Take the time to explore your options and if you need guidance or professional support, schedule a confidential Telehealth appointment with Oasis women’s health clinic to speak with a trained counselor.
Frequently Asked Questions !
Can contraception fail to work?
Yes ! Although contraception is a key component preventing inadvertent pregnancies it can sometimes fail especially in instances like starting the birth control pills at the wrong time or not clearly following the instructions of using the gadget properly Eg:- Condoms.
How do i tell my parents am pregnant?
Honestly telling your family—especially your parents—is quite nerve-racking. But you need to open up and tell your family how much you appreciate their support when you discuss your unanticipated pregnancy with them.
You can also try finding a social care counselor to assist you tell your family about the unplanned pregnancy on your behalf.
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